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An aging, ailing, and dying parents handbook could certainly provide some useful information so that baby boomer “children” don’t have to re-invent the wheel on taking care of parents…with recommendation for book endorsed by AARP

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Dad died on April 12 of this year. He and Mom were at home with friends enjoying conversation along with coffee and macaroons at their dining room table…one of Dad’s favorite activities ever. All four were having a lively chat about the state of the world, another of Dad’s favorite activities, although now [...]

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It’s been a year since Dad returned home from the stroke rehab hospital.  He’s still dealing with 12 hours a week of dyalisis which leaves him fatiqued and often depressed, but he and Mom continue to enjoy life’s gifts.  They spend time with friends and family, go to parties, entertain in their home, frequently dine [...]

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I’ve been “missing in action” for a while.  Everything’s okay…even great in some ways.  It’s been a busy few months, and my head has been  elsewhere.
I visited Mom and Dad in December, and it was a wonderful reunion.  Dad has lost a lot of weight (that’s a good thing), but he does look old to [...]

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With the Jewish High Holy Days and the Muslim month of Ramadan overlapping for the second time in two years, this year seems particularly auspicious for reflecting on the question of Baby Boomers’ responsibility to provide health and other care for our aging or ailing parents.  
Why should we care for our parents or other [...]

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Now that Dad is home from stroke rehab again, I’ve had the luxury of reflecting on the early days following his stroke, when my siblings, my mom, and I had to decide where he would go when he no longer needed to be hospitalized.  For the time being, that chapter in our lives is past, and thankfully so, [...]

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I have to say that watching Dad age in the past year has had its ups and downs.  Dads are supposed to be there always, to be the strong ones, to take care of you no matter what.  So when Dad had his stroke, it took some adjusting to the role reversal.   Now I get to [...]

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